What to Do with Your Time After Your Kids Have Flown the Nest: A Playful Guide to Your Newfound Freedom

So, your kids have finally moved out to live with friends or a partner or to go on their solo adventure and you're staring at an empty nest. Don't worry, celebrate! This is your time to rediscover yourself, embrace a bunch of new adventures and maybe even indulge in a little luxury for the first time in probably over 20 years. 

 

Here’s a cheeky guide to making the most of your newfound freedom from a fellow empty nester that is living their best life. 

 

Remember that hobby you loved that got shelved due to tutoring sessions and school runs? Whether you were an avid painter, gardener or even guitar player—now is YOUR time to dive back in! You could even reignite your passion while staying in the beautiful French countryside where creativity flows almost as freely as the wine. 

 

No more paying extortionate prices to travel during school holidays or having to find child-friendly spots. The world is calling your name so whether you’re renting a cosy cottage in the middle of nowhere, staying in a chic apartment full of breakable items or making the most of that now disposable income in a 5 star resort - does a certain French property spring to mind? - get out there and experience it. 

 

Let’s all say it together ‘No more kids' birthday parties!’ It's time for some adult soirées. Invite friends for a week at a rental property or just pull out your sleeping bags for a girly sleepover. Think wine tastings, cheese pairings and laughter-filled dinners whenever you want. 

 

With no more teen dramas taking up your time, focus on you. Take up yoga, join a Pilates class, or simply enjoy morning walks. You are your main priority now so take it from someone who loves keeping fit, once you get going you’ll not only feel happier from your increased serotonin levels but you’ll feel your confidence grow as you smash goals you’ve been meaning to do for years. 

 

Use this time to learn French or master Italian cooking. Whatever your newfound skills may be, you’ll become the star of your next dinner party in no time. 

 

I won’t lie to you and say if you fill every second of your time doing things you’ll never feel lonely but there are so many opportunities out there to be around people again (and these people won't ask you for £20 to go out with their friends before they leave either). Rediscover the joy of giving back by volunteering with a local community group, there’s plenty out there, you just need to look for them. Or why not join a book club, hiking group or wine tasting society to meet new friends doing something you already know you love. 

 

Sometimes, the best use of your time is doing absolutely positively nothing at all. Relax with a good book, cook your favourite food and let life's stresses melt away. After years of focussing on others, it’s okay to enjoy some peace and quiet. 

 

Embrace this new chapter with open arms. Book that dreamy property to get away to and start your next adventure. Life’s too short to stay in one place, especially when the world is waiting to be explored! 🌍✨